Kolkata is the city that shaped me. It is loud and poetic, chaotic and intellectual, warm and indifferent — sometimes all at once. Growing up in Bhushan Township, I had a life that looked comfortable from the outside. A gated community. A school. Friends.
But I was always aware that I wasn't Bengali. In a city so proud of its culture, language, and literary identity, being an outsider — even a loved one — leaves marks. I was welcomed, but not fully mirrored. That gap between belonging and being different taught me something fundamental: identity is something you build, not something you inherit.
Outside the township walls, I found the real Kolkata. The tea stalls, the tram lines, the intellectual debates spilling onto footpaths. The city's resilience was contagious. Even in poverty, there was pride. Even in chaos, there was beauty.
I grew up protected — but protection is temporary. The real world doesn't care about your township walls. And when reality arrived, I was both unprepared and, somehow, ready.
Moved to Bhushan Township, Kolkata
School life, first friendships, navigating cultural identity
First awareness of financial pressures at home